Here’s a hidden side effect of modern therapy culture. When healing is framed only as self-validation, accountability quietly disappears. We’ve shifted from asking, “What do I need to change?” to asking, “Who hurt me and why are they the problem?” That doesn’t lead to maturity. It leads to labeling. Historically, formation involved confession, repentance, and growth. When reflection replaces responsibility, relationships suffer and families fracture. True healing doesn’t just soothe. It forms. C